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Table of Contents
- 1. Introduction to the Anecdote
- 2. The Simple Power of Eight Minutes
- 3. Why We Struggle to Ask for Help
- 4. Vulnerability As a Strength, Not a Weakness
- 5. The Science of Support: How Asking for Help Improves Well-Being
- 6. How Leaders and Organizations Can Cultivate a Culture of Support
- 7. Maria Shriver’s Role: Listening as Leadership
- 8. Simon Sinek’s Takeaway: Connection Over Competence
- 9. Applying the “8 Minutes” Principle in Real Life
- 10. Conclusion: From Silence to Support Systems
1. Introduction to the Anecdote
During an interview with Nick Goldberg from EZRA Coaching, Simon Sinek recounted a powerful moment from a conversation with Maria Shriver. As Sinek was navigating a period of uncertainty and emotional fatigue, Maria asked him a question that might seem inconspicuous to most: “Do you have 8 minutes?”
With that brief inquiry, Shriver offered Sinek something profoundly human — time, space, and a willingness to listen. For Sinek, who often portrays thought leadership framed through concepts of purpose and empathy, the moment was a revelation. It reminded him how often we keep our struggles private and how impactful it can be when someone simply asks, “Can I help? Do you have a moment?”
This small phrase — and his reflection upon it — takes us to the heart of what it means to be human: seeking connection, support, and understanding during times of need.